Where to Request Your Marriage License Copy
You get a copy of your marriage license from the vital records office in the county where you were married, not from the state level or a courthouse. That office is usually part of the county clerk's department, the health department, or the registrar's office — the name varies by state and county. You cannot order it from your current county if you moved, and you cannot order it from the state vital records office unless that state has centralized all marriage records there (a few do, but most have not).
The fastest way to find the exact office is to search "[your county name] vital records" or "[your county name] marriage license copy" online. You will land on the county clerk's website or health department site, which will show you the mailing address, phone number, and whether they take orders by mail, email, phone, or in person. Some counties let you order online through a third-party vendor; others require you to call or visit in person. Calling first saves a wasted trip — many offices have specific hours for walk-ins, and some require an appointment.
Key Takeaways
- Contact the vital records office in the county where you married, which is usually the county clerk or health department, not your current county.
- You will need to provide your full names as they appeared on the license, the date of marriage, and sometimes a reason for the request.
- Certified copies cost between $10 and $30 depending on the county, and processing takes one to four weeks by mail.
- If you do not know which county you married in, you can search the state vital records office website or call the county clerk in the city where the ceremony took place.
- Some counties offer rush processing or in-person pickup for an extra fee if you need the copy within a few days.
What Information You Need to Provide
When you contact the vital records office, have ready your full names exactly as they appeared on the marriage license, the date you married, and the city or town where the ceremony took place. If you do not remember the exact date, the month and year are usually enough. Some offices ask for your current address and phone number so they can contact you if there is a problem with your request.
Many counties ask why you need the copy — common answers are "personal records," "name change documentation," or "passport process." This is not a barrier; they ask to route your request to the right department or to flag if you need a certified versus uncertified copy. Be honest about the reason, but do not worry that any answer will be rejected.
Certified Versus Uncertified Copies
A certified copy has an official seal and signature from the vital records office and is accepted by banks, government agencies, employers, and courts. An uncertified copy is a photocopy without the seal and is useful only for your own records. Most people need a certified copy. If you are unsure, ask the office what the document will be used for — they will tell you which type you need.
Certified copies cost more (usually $15 to $30 per copy) than uncertified ones ($5 to $10), and some offices charge extra if you want multiple certified copies at once. If you think you might need more than one, order several at the same time — ordering them separately months later costs more in total and takes longer.
How Long It Takes and What It Costs
By mail, expect one to four weeks depending on the county's backlog. By phone or in person, some offices can hand you a copy the same day or within a few days. A few counties offer rush processing — usually one to three business days — for an extra $10 to $20. Check the county website or call to ask whether rush service is available and what it costs.
Standard certified copies run $15 to $30 per copy. Uncertified copies are $5 to $10. Shipping by mail adds $5 to $15 depending on whether you choose regular or expedited mail. If you are ordering by mail, include a self-addressed stamped envelope or ask the office what payment methods they take — some accept checks, credit cards, or money orders, and policies differ widely.
If You Do Not Know Which County You Married In
If you remember the city or town but not the county, search "[city name] county" online — most cities belong to one county. If the ceremony was in a small town, the county clerk's office in that town can tell you which vital records office holds the record. Call them and give the names and approximate year; they can usually point you to the right place in minutes.
If you have no idea where you married, some state vital records offices maintain a searchable index of all marriages in the state. Search "[your state] vital records marriage search" to see if your state offers this. A few states let you search for free online; others charge a small fee per search. This is faster than calling multiple counties.
Ordering by Mail, Phone, or In Person
By mail, write a letter with your names, marriage date, city, and the number of certified copies you need. Include a check or money order for the fee plus shipping, and a self-addressed stamped envelope. Mail it to the address on the county vital records website. Include your phone number so they can call if there is a problem.
By phone, call the vital records office during business hours, give the same information, and ask how to pay — some take credit cards over the phone and mail the copy, others require a check mailed in first. By in person, bring a photo ID, the fee in cash or check, and be ready to wait 15 minutes to an hour depending on how busy the office is. Some offices let you order online through their website or a vendor like VitalChek; follow the prompts and pay by credit card.
What to Do If the Record Cannot Be Found
If the vital records office says they have no record of your marriage, ask them to search again using variations of your names — maiden names, nicknames, or spelling changes can cause mismatches. Give them the exact year and city again. If they still find nothing, the record may be filed in a different county than you thought, or it may not have been recorded at all (rare, but it happens).
Ask the office whether they can search neighboring counties or whether the state vital records office maintains a statewide index. Some states have a central repository; others do not. If the record truly cannot be found, you may need to contact the courthouse in the city where you married — they sometimes have copies of marriage records even if the vital records office does not. As a last resort, you can request a certified statement from the vital records office saying the record does not exist; this document can sometimes substitute for a marriage license in legal proceedings.
Frequently Asked Questions
How many certified copies should I order at once?
Order at least two or three. You may need one for a bank, one for a government agency, and one for your personal records. Ordering them together costs less than ordering separately later, and you avoid the wait time if you need another one unexpectedly.
Can I order a copy if I am not the person who got married?
It depends on the county. Some offices release copies only to the people named on the license or their legal representatives. Others release them to anyone with a legitimate reason. Call the office and explain who you are and why you need it — they will tell you whether they can help.
What if my name has changed since I married?
Bring a photo ID showing your current name and a document proving the name change (divorce decree, adoption papers, court order). The vital records office will match you to the record using your name at the time of marriage, not your current name.
Can I get a copy if I married in another country?
No — you would contact the vital records office in that country or region instead. If you need a U.S. copy for immigration or legal purposes, you may need to get the foreign record certified and translated by a U.S. consulate or a certified translator.
How do I know if I need a certified or uncertified copy?
If you are using it for a bank, government agency, court, employer, or passport process, you need a certified copy with the official seal. If it is only for your personal records or reference, an uncertified copy is fine. When in doubt, ask the organization that requested it.